Women

A question frequently crosses my mind when I observe women competing with men in all fields within this misogynistic society. I will discuss this question later in the post.

My childhood was marked by witnessing people who would cry if a girl was born into their family. They always yearned for a baby boy and viewed a girl as a burden to their financial stability.

Sanatan Dharma teaches us that "women are a representation of the feminine superpower (Maa Parvati, Laxmi, Kali, Durga, Saraswati, Mohini, Shakti, Bharavi, Siddhidatri, etc...)." It is said that the world is created by the Shakti and Purush tattva. Do we truly comprehend this?

By the end of this blog, I am confident I will have influenced your thoughts.

Let's commence with the teachings of Sanatan Dharma.

The whole world began with two tattvas: "Purush and Prakriti," which are synonymous with "Shiva" and "Shakti."

Shiva and Shakti are two tattvas, but in-depth, they are complete only when together. If Shiva is isolated, there will be no creation without Shakti. If Shakti is isolated, there will be instability without Shiva.

In short, Shiva and Shakti are only complete when they are together.

Let's delve deeper into understanding Shakti:

Maa Shakti incarnated multiple times on this planet before she found stability as PARVATI. She achieved stability only after:

1. She discovered all her capabilities.

2. She united with Mahadev (Shiva).

The Ardhanarishvara form of Shiva and Shakti is what you should envision when I mention "becoming one."

Worshiping this form will bless you with "balanced growth." Let's talk about point no. 1.

It is said that Maa Parvati had to explore all her hidden capabilities through the process of Tantra, taught by Shiva. Her spiritual growth was depicted by her nine forms. We worship her in nine forms during Navratri pooja: Shailaputri, Bharamcharini, Chandraghanta, Khushmanda, Skandhmata, Katyayni, Kalratri, Mahagauri, and Siddhidhatri.

I'd like to recite a shloka that just came to mind: "Ya devi Shavabhutesu, Navdurga ruppen samasthitah, nahamstasye namahtasye namahtasye namao namah."

Transitioning from the glorious past and ancient teachings to the era in which we live, in the 19th and early 20th centuries, women were treated as though they were merely birthing machines and providers of food for men.

My question is, "Where did we learn this? Who taught us this?"

I can contemplate a few possible answers to my question:

1. Nobody taught them the true essence of Sanatan Dharma.

2. They were unable to grasp its teachings.

3. They were under negative influences.

4. Some people believe men are superior.

In the present era, women have proven themselves in all respects. They have proven that their existence doesn't require a caretaker; in fact, they can be caretakers themselves. They have demonstrated their ability to transform into individuals as strong and independent as men.

So why did we hinder their progress earlier?

I'm not asserting that women are superior to men or that men are inferior to women. I'm saying that women possess a great potential that often goes unrecognized.

"We fail to comprehend their capabilities."

In truth, their bodies can hold two or more souls within them (e.g., during pregnancy). Spiritually, by default, they are more advanced.

At the core of it all:

We continue to see things in black and white. We've always sought to determine who is superior to whom.

It took me 29 years to realize that the picture we actually see is gray.

A man is incomplete without a woman, and vice versa.

Together, they make each other whole, but only if they respect and understand each other.

I'll conclude with a saying that encapsulates the essence of this blog:

"Shakti can only be with Shiva."

Joker

This is the story of a man, who forgot, when to laugh and when to weep,

There is something bothering him, its down deep...

Watching his face observer’s could say,

He is smiling and crying simultaneously all day...

I am joker. I will make you laugh,

Why are you sad when I am in half...?

Don’t look at me when I am crying,

You will laugh at me even if I am dying...

What makes you think I am strange?

I am like you but a little change...

I don’t know why I smile in pain and cry in rain,

There is something, which I cannot take out from my brain...

I must admit, I don’t have any clone,

That is the reason why I live alone...

Don’t judge me; I am not someone to be commented upon,

I am a joker who hides his face with a crayon...

You come to see me because I take your grief and make u smile.

Even I am so good in it but there is something which I cannot compile...

I am scared of light because it’s so bright,

I live in dark, as it hides a mark!

I am happy with my emotions unrevealed.

 But you cannot keep it concealed!

I am joker. I will make you laugh,

Why are you sad when I am in half...?

Are you Independent ?

             Every year we celebrate Independence of our Nation. First question that comes to my mind is, Are we really Independent ?

         Let me elaborate this in the way I think. Independence  of Nation means every one in this Nation hold's Freedom. Freedom to live, freedom to speak, Freedom to take decisions for himself and to the peoples he is bounded with love, affection and responsibility...

     Second question what comes to my mind is, Having this responsibilities, really  makes you attire Freedom ?
     Well yes ,the day you were born certain responsibilities were put on the head your parents and the weight shifts to your head as you grow up. Your nourishment make you able to hold that weight successfully...

 Few honorable Ministers holds the responsibility of the whole nation. Are they Independent ? This is my third question !

well, it's surprising to see as we started our talk about Independence we got stuck with "responsibilities".

So, seriously if you want to celebrate your Independence then take a oath on this Independence day...and  redeem your responsibilities towards your family, towards your neighbor,toward your nation and towards every living and non-living thing's on this planet. In this way we can actually give humanity a boost for a brighter future...


                                       JAI HIND !

Power of being determinate !

'Having a dream', 'effort' and 'determination to make it true' are just like 'problem', 'script/code' and 'compiler'.
I would interact with you like a programmer in this topic. You have to think and reach to what I want to convey.
  Being a coder ,when we have to achieve our objective ,first of all we think about the problem. After accomplishing this ,we reach to the next phase, that is 'code phase' ,we make tremendous effort to frame the code (script). Imagine you are in this situation.
This phase leads you to the programing arena and makes you fight with your thoughts. Over here ,you face many difficulties to frame it correctly but you don't give up because you have your "God tool" with you (ie.. compiler). You face many failure to write the code correctly but the best thing is ,you are sure your will do it  just because there is compiler with u. Compiler makes you stick to the creation of 'script' .
This war ends either when you give up or when you make it.
This is what "aim in your life" is.
        
(Some words are left unsaid for you to frame it accordingly )

I would only say ,"be determined till you make it !".

                          
-AbhissszZ

How to avoid addiction !

Addiction is a word that defines craziness of someone for something. Unknowingly, we are addicted to many things around us since our first breath.
When people try to leave or ignore any of there addictions, there is only a single thing that stops them. The thing is "duration" ,the duration spent with that addictive thing.
If the duration is larger, it would be harder for you to go away.
The key to this lock is again the same thing that made it powerful. It's the "duration" . The more you will try to go away, u will be attracted toward's it. It's better to give the duration of that thing (addiction) to something else (alternative)... Don't go away, give it's time to other stuff 's and that would replace it.
So, don't try to go away from addiction, just replace it and nourish the alternative with the same duration, you will succeed.

-AbhissszZ